Is Your Ex a Threat?

Here’s How to Stay Safe and Take Back Control.

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✔ Survivor-Tested Strategies             ✔ Expert-Backed Guidance             ✔ Immediate, Actionable Steps

A Proven Safety System for Women Facing a Dangerous or Controlling Ex

If you feel trapped, scared, or unsure what to do next—you're not alone.This step-by-step system will teach you:

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Danger Assessment

How to assess the real danger level of your ex

Physical Protection

How to protect yourself physically

Home Security

How to secure your home in various circumstances

Legal Protection

How to protect yourself legally

Digital Protection

How to protect yourself digitally

How to Be a Difficult Target

What mistakes most women make—and how to avoid them

Create a Personalized Safety Plan

How to create a safety plan that is tailored to your family's unique needs

Trauma Care

What to expect from trauma and how to work through it

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Accessible Anywhere

We know that many women don't seek help from a scary man because they're ashamed of the situation that they find themselves in.  They don't want to be labeled.  We've been there too!  With this program, there is no walk of shame, and the only label we want to put on you is "Survivor".  You can get through this terrible experience.  We can help!

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Self-Paced

This program is designed to be fast and practical. 

It's split up into 2 sections:

  • Section 1 is about getting you safe.
  • Section 2 is about what to do once you're safe.

Core lessons can be completed in just a few hours and are there and ready whenever you are.

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A Complete Plan

You can find information online about all of the topics that we cover in this program, but you don't have time to piece all of the information together.  This program was created by a survivor, who talked to many other survivors during the process of creating it, to make sure that you have the best and most important information, in the most practical order, but we didn't stop there.  We also want to make sure that you have the support you need, so we've included it with a weekly support call and a private online community that you can access anytime!

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Your complete safety plan in one place

You don’t have to live in fear. The Scary Ex Survival System gives you the tools to escape, protect yourself, and reclaim your life—before it’s too late.

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Frequently asked questions

What will I learn in the Scary Ex Survival System?

​You’ll learn how to:
✔ Assess the threat level of your ex-partner
✔ Create a complete, personalized safety plan that covers your home, work, and other life activities
✔ Protect yourself legally with restraining orders, stay away letters, parenting plans, and court preparation
✔ Secure your home and digital privacy
✔ Mentally and emotionally retake control of your life and begin to build the life that you want
✔ Build a strong support system and regain confidence

Who is this program for?

This program is specifically designed for women who have:

✔ Left a romantic relationship in the last 12 months
✔ Are afraid of that ex-partner
✔ Are motivated to learn what to do to keep themselves and their families as safe as possible from that ex
✔ Are willing to act on the advice of someone who has been there and survived

 

If you have left a partner that you're afraid of in the last 12 months and you're feeling afraid, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do next, this program is for you!

If you are still with your scary partner, we recommend:

  • doing the free Does He Scare You Quiz on our website
  • watching the videos on our YouTube channel
  • Contacting your local domestic violence organization or thehotline.org and creating a safety plan to get out of that relationship
What if I can't afford this program right now?

Your safety is priceless, but we know money can be tight. That’s why we offer:
✔ Free threat assessment video so you can start taking action today.
✔ Payment plans so you don’t have to pay everything upfront.
✔ Low-cost webinar if you need guidance but aren’t ready for the full program.

Many survivors spend thousands on legal fees, moving costs, and security upgrades—this program helps you avoid costly mistakes and get it right the first time.

How do I know this will actually keep me safe?

No program can guarantee absolute safety, but this system is built on proven strategies that have helped thousands of women:
✔ Survivor-tested techniques for real-life situations
✔ Expert-backed safety planning that aligns with law enforcement best practices
✔ Immediate, actionable steps you can take today

If you do nothing, your risk remains the same—or gets worse.  This program helps you take control and make informed decisions to protect yourself.

How long does the program take?

The core training can be completed within hours, but the strategies and action steps are designed for long-term safety planning.  You can go at your own pace and revisit the materials anytime.

Do you offer refunds?

Given the nature of the program and the instant access to digital materials, refunds are not available. However, we highly value your satisfaction. Please contact us with any concerns, and we will make every effort to address them.